Sunday, October 5, 2014

Life is more than us. Life is better together.

"Spirit lead me where my trust is without bordersLet me walk upon the watersWherever You would call meTake me deeper than my feet could ever wanderAnd my faith will be made strongerIn the presence of my Savior"


Over the past few months I’ve been reminded on a number of occasions how precious life is, how quickly life can change and what it means to live life to the fullest.

I don’t think people will remember us for how much money we had or how if we had the latest and greatest gadgets. They won’t remember us for always having the cleanest house or car or how good we were at our jobs.

In the end, I believe we will be remembered for our hearts, for how much we loved and how much we cared for the people who surround us.

In July I had the amazing honor of meeting Jennifer Hutcheson. Jennifer was a beautiful person inside and out. Her spirit was full of life and her smile could light up a room. (Read Jennifer's story here)

Here’s the thing, Jennifer had so many reasons, so many excuses, to be mad, sad or frustrated. But she wasn’t.

For the past nine years Jennifer was fighting cancer. She had lost a lot of weight. She was in constant pain. She was weak and her hair had fallen out several times.

Jennifer was strong, she was a fighting and a warrior. And she could teach us all a lot about life.

After waiting five years to marry the love of her life, she became Mrs. Jennifer Korth on July 6 with close family and friends. She said her I do’s in a wheelchair, but she never looked more beautiful.

On Aug. 6 Jennifer passed away. But a few things she said in July stuck with me.

Her advice for life was very simple.

"Try not to be so wound up on the stuff you're going through. Everybody thinks what they're going through is the worst thing. Try to do something good for someone else. The way I live is I want for myself just to leave the world better than it was before. I don't know if I've done that, but I'm trying," she said. "Smile, even when it sucks. I smile to make other people's day change.

"Just remember, other people are going through stuff around you."




I hope that I am willing to take risks in my life that when an opportunity to live an extraordinary life comes my way, I will say yes without hesitation.

Can you imagine what life would be like if we believed that life is meant for so much more than is what in front of our eyes? If we believed that we could do things so much bigger than our imaginations?

We were never created to live ordinary lives. We were not created to sit by and make our lives better when people are out there suffering. We were put here on this earth to serve and to work together to make life amazing and filled with love.

Life will never be perfect. Neither will we.

But I hope that I can look at each and every day and know that I didn’t just “get through it.” I hope each day I wake up and ask how can I impact those I will come in contact with.


Because what is the point of living if it’s only to make ourselves happy?

Saturday, July 19, 2014

The beauty of Flint: What it taught me


Flint.

I love this city. At the same time I’m sad for this city. I’m sad that so many people can’t see its potential or that some people can’t realize that it’s not the city it once was.
It’s changing. And there are so many people and organizations that want to see great things happen in the city.

But, you see, I used to be that person that was a little unsure about Flint. So much has changed over the past few years. And I’ve learned so much.

I’ve been put out of my comfort zone, talked to complete strangers, took over a community cookout with some friends, helped create a blog to tell stories of people who have lived on the streets (Flint Stories Project).

I have been changed. Flint has changed me. Flint’s people have changed me.




Here is what I have learned:
  • Everyone has a story. Listen to it. Learn from it. Don’t judge.
  • If we want to see Flint changed, we MUST take action. Talking about it and brainstorming about it is not good enough. Change never happened by simply talking about it.
  • Being committed and continuing to show up even when it’s inconvenient for you makes a bigger difference than you know. Allow people to trust in what you believe.
  • Some people you meet downtown will be crazy. Love them anyways.
  • Some people will make you uncomfortable. Being in your comfort zone isn’t as great as it sounds. Being uncomfortable helps you grow.
  • Doing great things in Flint or in any city will not be easy. It is stressful. But it will be worth it.
  • Be open to suggestions. Things can always be improved. But hold on to your vision and your purpose.
  • Try and go with the flow. Things will change. Things will not always go as planned. It is OK.
  • Try new things anyways.
  • Flint is beautiful. The people are beautiful. They are just looking for a little hope and people who care.

If you haven’t been to Flint in awhile, do yourself a favor and get downtown. Check out the new Flint Farmers Market. You will not be disappointed. Check out the coffee shops and restaurants downtown.
Take a look around. See what cool things are being done.


I have seen friends put flower planters around the city encouraging others to fill them. Guess what? People did.

Forge Flint was created last year by an amazing group of people to bring groups to Flint to fix up homes and the community. Guess what? It has been hugely successful. Lives have been changed.

There are many other groups and people that have been doing things for years to make this community better. Why not join them instead of joining the masses who just talk about change?